Date someone who meets you half way. Date someone who brings you a glass a water when they get themselves one. Date someone who makes sure you don’t spend money on ridiculous things. Date someone your ex hates and your mom loves. Date someone who’d rather spend a Friday night watching movies, than out with 50 people they barley even talk to. Date someone who sleeps on your chest and leaves a little puddle of drool. Don’t date someone who makes you leave oceans of tears.
In order to become physically stronger, you need to tear your muscles, damage them. I’ve learned that the heart works the same way. Heartbreak can leave you crawling on the floor in pain, you feel like being sick. You can literally feel your heart tearing apart. But after the pain resides and all the tears slowly heal, you are left with a stronger heart; one that now knows your limits, knows your worth, knows what you deserve and knows that the most important love is towards yourself.